LOL Kaz, some expert you are. Nitro cars do NOT explode and are no more dangerous than electrics. He forgot to mention how Lipo batteries can explode if overcharged in your home and have caused more property damage and injuries than any reports of nitro RCs. NOW, on to your question.
You want to get a hobby grade RC so I would go with brand names like Traxxas, HPI, Associated, Losi, Tamiya and Kyosho. A great place to get one of these is www.towerhobbies.com. Keep in mind that on the home page of this site there are coupon codes for extra $$$'s off and they have free shipping on their vehicles (not parts). You also have to look at what kind of RC you want to get. On-road, like a car. You need a lot of room and open space, like a WalMart/shopping cent parking lot to run one of those. And there aren't many tracks out there for On Road. You could get a monster truck like the Traxxas T-Maxx or Revo, HPI Savage. These, in my opinion are the best since you can run them anywhere on any terrain. One of the most popular RC class out today are the Short Course trucks like the Traxxas Slayer Pro. I lean more towards Traxxas since they come with waterproof electronics. So you can basically run them in any season, which is nice if you live where it snows or rains a lot. The other brands I mentioned are great as well, but I have had the best luck with Traxxas out of the 15+ years I have been in this hobby....and I'm no expert like Kaz (HA).
There is nothing too complex about RCs. You just need a little patience and practice and you will be fine. There are a ton of RC forums on the web, I go to the Traxxas forum every day to answer AND ask questions. They are always willing to help out if I have a problem. I have to mention that Traxxas customer support is second to none. They have the best support that I have ever dealt with, and that is important if you have a defect from the factory or need assistance with an issue.
Electrics are fun too but they are more of a plug and play in my opinion. I like working with the small motors and tuning them so they run perfect. Electrics require some tuning as well but nothing like the nitros. And the sound and smell of nitro RCs is just that much more realistic. I have 5 nitro and one electric, so you can tell which one I like better....and Kaz, I have never blown one up or injured someone in over 15 years.
If you find an RC that you like on Tower Hobbies, go to YouTube and do a search on that RC. It will give you a chance to see how that particular RC runs before making the purchase. This is the best hobby I have ever had and you are going to enjoy it. In closing....I would recommend the Traxxas Revo 3.3. It's been voted Best 4x4 Nitro RC of the year since the year it was produced. I have one and it is my favorite out of my fleet. Hope this helps.