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I was 26 when I got married. My husband 29. I had always had the goal to get married around 25, I wanted to finish my education, travel to Europe, start a career, etc., so I didn't stress out about things so much until that Birthday came and went, and I started reflecting on the fact that I had never had a boyfriend. On top of that my recently returned from a mission brother got engaged, and my little sister got engaged. Than I started pressuring myself. My parents became more desperate and pressured my siblings into setting me up, it miraculously worked? Living with singles since I was 18 it became quite obvious that the older men were interested in younger girls. After I graduated from college (21), and lived with younger girls they were often married and dated before any of my roommates who were closer in age to the young man, this would drive me crazy. I still have many girlfriends who are not married and are now over the age of 30. The honest truth is that even though advances in science have made it easier to conceive after the age of 27 your chances of conceiving become more difficult. Most Relief Society lessons focus on raising a good family. Many might deny the pressure, but I know growing up when a family had a child that was not married over the age of 25 there was quiet talk, about why they hadn't been able to find a mate (they were to shy, not attractive, to involved with career,) I was told many times I was intimidating because of my education. Now as a person who did get married "older" than the norm, I find that I feel always fit in because I am older just starting my family, many that are younger than me have eight year olds, and some from H.S. already have kids going into Jr. High. I find myself trying to hangout with women with children my kids age who I could have taught in H.S. I don't necessarily want to trade my experiences for that, and I am very grateful to have my 3 year old and one on the way. I feel sorry for my friends who are single that is the truth, not all of them are secure in that world, and yearn desperately for my world. A lot of my friends were called as RS presidents in singles wards when they were 29 years old, this was the case for three of my friends. I don't know if it was a your the oldest you get it, or a last ditch effort on their behalves to get them noticed? I have met some very successful single women who would make perfect spouses and mothers, and I wonder what kind of crazy guy let this person go? But, they always say Sheri Dew did it, and so can I. I heard that so many times, and it's the truth.